Military Divorce Guide

Comprehensive Family Law Information for Servicemembers & Family Members.

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About the Guide

The Military Divorce Guide was created by Carl O. Graham, a Colorado Springs, CO divorce lawyer and former Army JAG officer. As a principal of Black & Graham, LLC, domestic relations and criminal defense attorneys, Carl is in charge of the firm's family law practice, and focuses exclusively on Colorado divorce & family law, including military divorce issues.

  • Military Divorce Guide
    • Jurisdiction Over Servicemembers
    • Division of Military Retirement
    • VA Disability & Divorce
    • Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP)
    • Military Family Support
    • Former Spouse Military Benefits
      • 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Benefits
      • Continued Health Care through COBRA
    • Garnishment of Military Pay
    • Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA)
    • Domestic Violence
    • Obtaining Military Records
    • Reserve Family Law Issues
    • Understanding Military Pay
    • Life Insurance
    • Paternity & The Military

Former Spouse Military Benefits

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Upon obtaining a Colorado dissolution, the former spouse of a servicemember has a right to receive military benefits so long as he/she meets the criteria. As the benefits are statutory entitlements, they are automatic and not subject to negotiation or deviation by a divorce court in Colorado or other states.

Children and stepchildren of servicemembers retain full military benefits while unmarried and under 22.

 

Benefits During Separation

Until a Colorado divorce court issues a final decree of dissolution, a civilian spouse separated from a servicemember retains full military privileges, including ID card, medical, military exchange, commissary, etc. Though the servicemember can terminate the civilian spouse's ability to cash checks on post by going to the PX/BX, he/she cannot confiscate the spouse's ID card, or otherwise suspend the spouse's military privileges.

Because a civilian spouse with a decree of legal separation in Colorado still retains military benefits, parties who do not intend on remarrying may wish to consider this option if, e.g., the civilian spouse has a preexisting medical condition which makes it difficult to obtain alternative medical care.

Military housing is generally only authorized to servicemembers residing with their families, so typically an installation will give a civilian spouse a reasonable time after separation to vacate on-post housing.

 

Benefits Details:

 

  • 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Benefits
  • Continued Health Care through COBRA
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This site is informational, and not a substitute for legal advice from one of the Colorado Springs military divorce law firms, lawyers or attorneys. Only a signed agreement with this Colorado Springs divorce lawyer creates a lawyer-client relationship. We practice in Colorado Springs / El Paso, Teller, Douglas, and Pueblo Counties in Colorado family law (Colorado divorce, military divorce issues, child support law, grandparent visitation & rights, common law marriage, child custody law, legal separation law, annulment, alimony law, etc).  Login