Military Divorce Guide

Comprehensive Family Law Information for Servicemembers & Family Members.

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About the Guide

The Military Divorce Guide was created by Carl O. Graham, a Colorado Springs, CO divorce lawyer and former Army JAG officer. As a principal of Black & Graham, LLC, domestic relations and criminal defense attorneys, Carl is in charge of the firm's family law practice, and focuses exclusively on Colorado divorce & family law, including military divorce issues.

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    • Jurisdiction Over Servicemembers
      • Subject-Matter Jurisdiction
      • Personal Jurisdiction Over Servicemembers
      • Service of Process on Military Personnel
    • Division of Military Retirement
      • Types of Military Retirement
      • Disposable Retired Pay
      • Colorado Formula for Military Retirement Division
      • Servicemember Still on Active Duty
      • Direct Retirement Payments from DFAS
    • Disability & Divorce
      • VA Waiver of Military Retirement
      • Indemnity for VA Waiver
      • Combat-Related Special Compensation (CRSC)
      • Disability Retired Lists (TDRL / PDRL)
      • Disability Severance Pay
      • Traumatic Injury Protection (TSGLI)
    • Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP)
      • SBP Beneficiaries
      • SBP Election
      • SBP Premium Costs
      • SBP Premium Payment Responsibility
      • SBP Suspension or Termination
    • Military Family Support
      • Army Family Support
      • Air Force Family Support
      • Navy Family Support
      • Marine Corps Family Support
      • Coast Guard Family Support
    • Former Spouse Military Benefits
      • 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Benefits
      • Continued Health Care Benefit Program / COBRA
      • Mixed Reserve & Active Time for 20/20/20 Benefits
    • Garnishment of Military Pay
      • Garnishing Military Retirement & VA Disability
      • Maximum Garnishment Limitations
    • Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA)
      • Protection from Default Judgments
      • Stay of Civil Proceedings
      • Colorado Reservist Parent Protection
    • Domestic Violence
      • Lautenberg Amendment
      • Domestic Violence Victim Benefits
    • Obtaining Military Records
    • Reserve Family Law Issues
    • Understanding Military Pay
    • Life Insurance
    • How to Hire a Military Divorce Attorney
    • Paternity & The Military

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Former Spouse Military Benefits

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Upon obtaining a Colorado dissolution, the former spouse of a servicemember has a right to receive military benefits so long as he/she meets the criteria. As the benefits are statutory entitlements, they are automatic and not subject to negotiation or deviation by a divorce court in Colorado or other states.

Children and stepchildren of servicemembers retain full military benefits while unmarried and under 22.

 

Benefits During Separation

Until a Colorado divorce court issues a final decree of dissolution, a civilian spouse separated from a servicemember retains full military privileges, including ID card, medical, military exchange, commissary, etc. Though the servicemember can terminate the civilian spouse's ability to cash checks on post by going to the PX/BX, he/she cannot confiscate the spouse's ID card, or otherwise suspend the spouse's military privileges.

Because a civilian spouse with a decree of legal separation in Colorado still retains military benefits, parties who do not intend on remarrying may wish to consider this option if, e.g., the civilian spouse has a preexisting medical condition which makes it difficult to obtain alternative medical care.

Military housing is generally only authorized to servicemembers residing with their families, so typically an installation will give a civilian spouse a reasonable time after separation to vacate on-post housing.

 

Benefits Details:

 

  • 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Benefits
  • Continued Health Care Benefit Program / COBRA
  • Mixed Reserve & Active Time for 20/20/20 Benefits
‹ Coast Guard Family Support up 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Benefits ›
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This site is informational, and not a substitute for legal advice from one of the Colorado Springs military divorce law firms, lawyers or attorneys. Only a signed agreement with this Colorado Springs divorce lawyer creates a lawyer-client relationship. We practice in Colorado Springs / El Paso, Teller, Douglas, and Pueblo Counties, and the neighboring military installations (Fort Carson, Peterson Air Force Base, the Air Force Academy, Cheyenne Mountain Air Station, and Shriever AFB). We practice in Colorado family law (Colorado divorce, military divorce issues, child support law, grandparent visitation & rights, common law marriage, child custody law, legal separation law, annulment, alimony law, etc), and criminal defense.  Login